Gary's Memory Wall
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Dear Barb and family, Gary was such an outstanding individual, so gregarious and caring.I'm sure he has positively impacted so many lives. The community has lost an amazing Patriarch. Sincere condolences to all of you. craig/cherie okonski
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craig okonski
April 27th, 2023 at 8:53pm
Uncle Gary was an amazing uncle that was always there when I needed someone to talk with. He made me laugh and smile all the time. I will miss you so much!
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Brian Curneal
April 25th, 2023 at 4:53pm
Gary was the gentlest, kindest person I ever knew. As a lawyer, he exhibited the best in the profession: peacemaking, civility and empathy. He was a model for a young lawyer like me starting out those many years ago. He always had a smile and could lighten the mood with a joke or two. My condolences to his family and all who were close to him, he will be missed.
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Rod Fuller
April 20th, 2023 at 11:32pm
We had the good fortune to have had Gary Hosbein coach two of our daughters at Lakeshore. He not only taught them basketball, but kindness, compassion and integrity. He was a great coach and a great man.
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Al and Nancy Poschke
April 18th, 2023 at 3:31pm
I had the honor of giving "Hoser" his nickname many years ago. I will always remember his lucky white sweater he wore to our games! Hoser, you will forever be in my heart- To Barb and kids- my deepest condolences. His smile will live forever🏀❤️
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Brigett Hoffman
April 18th, 2023 at 11:07am
Coach was my favorite coach in high school! He was so caring, supportive, and we all loved his bear hugs. I’m thankful I was able to see him this last month. The community will definitely miss him. Praying for you all
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Lindsey Nelson
April 17th, 2023 at 7:30pm
Dear Barb and family, Bob and I, along with my parents and all of my sisters, as well as my high school basketball team were so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. He was an amazing human being who brought joy to everyone around him. His smile would light up a room. I was honored to first get to know Gary as an LMC basketball coach. He was always so positive and encouraging. He made the game even more fun to play. He will be greatly missed by our whole community. I am certain that heaven is a brighter, happier place with him there. We will keep you all in our prayers. Sending you all much love and hugs.
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Trish & Bob Salvano
April 17th, 2023 at 4:30pm
Dear Barb and Family, Leslie and I are so sorry for your loss. Gary's passing is also a loss for the whole community. We didn't often cross paths legally, but when we did it was a pleasure to work with a true gentlemen. When we met casually he always had a good word. Our daughters knew each other well. That is how I knew he was good father. Our town and legal community are lesser for the loss of Gary. With deepest sympathies, Mark & Leslie Miller
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Mark Miller
April 17th, 2023 at 3:12pm
our hearts are heavy hearing of the passing of Gary Hosbein. We loved seeing Gary on his porch durung summer months, waving at all who passed by. His smile lit up any room and to hear his laughter always brought joy. i can picture Gary as he entered Heaven on two very strong legs as he shouted with uplifted arms "I'm here"!!! Until we meet again, RIP Gary.
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Steve and Hilda Banyon
April 17th, 2023 at 2:58pm
Dear Barb and Family, We were so very sorry to hear of Gary's passing. May the many years of wonderful memories be a comfort to each of you during this difficult time. Sincerely, Julie & Alan
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Julie & Alan Smiy
April 17th, 2023 at 10:18am
I first met Gary when I was a rookie police officer in the late '70s or early '80s. Not only was he one of the best attorneys I've ever met, we also became good friends. I don't know if one person had ever said a bad word about him. He stood up for his clients but at the same time had respect for law enforcement. This is a great lost for everyone.
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William Tucker
April 17th, 2023 at 9:34am
My sincere condolences to Barb and family. I will always remember how Gary was always kind and had calm disarming voice. God loves us all, everyone--- God's peace and comfort to you during this time, Barb and all your family and friends who knew Gary.
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Mark Sperlik
April 17th, 2023 at 4:38am
Dear Barb and family, We are so sorry to learn of Gary’s passing. Gary always made us laugh. We will never forget him. Gary and you all will be in our prayers.
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Debbie and Stan Kapica
April 16th, 2023 at 10:28pm
Gary was a classmate who was smart, funny & unfailingly kind. Please accept my sympathies for your family's sad loss.
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Donna Orton Krieger
April 16th, 2023 at 8:29pm
Thank you, Gary, for the friendship we shared for 62 years. My life was made much richer for your part in it. The angels in heaven are in for a big treat with your arrival!
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Bob Zielsdorf
April 16th, 2023 at 11:58am
Sorry for loss. The years at St. John’s with Gary were memorable. They ere good years for all of us. I remember Chuck and I going on double dates with Gary and Barb. We always had lots of laughs and lots of fun. Gary will be missed but we will meet again.
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Sally Salvano
April 16th, 2023 at 11:22am
Coach was one of the kindest, joyful people I know! He always lended a listening ear or a big bear hug beyond my freshman basketball days and into my adult years. I am sad to hear of his passing and am praying for his family. He lived an amazing life of service!
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Mallory Berry
April 15th, 2023 at 9:09pm
I am saddened to hear of Gary's passing. Such a kind, wise man! His obituary well says it all. A beloved, loving person whose imprint will last on our community and on everyone who knew him. Heartfelt condolences extend to family members.
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Judy Cassidy
April 15th, 2023 at 5:58pm
Barb, I so saddened to hear the passing of such a wonderful, kind person. One that always had a smile on his face. With my condolences, my you find Strength, love, peace during this very difficult time. God bless you and your family.
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Kim Ringer
April 15th, 2023 at 3:26pm
My heart goes out to you Barb, and your wonderful family. When I think of Gary, the word CHARACTER comes to mind. Never met anyone that was more caring, honorable, or with more integrity. His word was his bond. And he was a ‘character’…bubbly, full of life, unusual, excited and exciting ! His friendship was a real blessing in my life.
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Tony Canonie
April 15th, 2023 at 10:54am
Barb,Stephanie, and family, I am so sorry for you all… this is so heartbreaking. Such a huge loss for such a great family. Sending much love and caring from Florida for now. Big arms available when I get back ❤️.
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Ferol Allen
April 15th, 2023 at 10:19am
If I had to name the top 10 people in my life who I’ve been blessed to call my friend, Gary would definitely be on my list. Our friendship began in 1973 when I started working at his law firm. It didn’t take long to realize what a gem of a person he was … kind, generous, compassionate, and oh so much fun to be around. Oftentimes, he extended office hours across the street to The Cove for a couple drinks where his joke telling, quick wit and big laugh came into play. My heart has been so heavy since I learned of Gary’s passing. He was such a wonderful friend who I truly loved. My deepest sympathies to Barb, his children, grandchildren and all who loved him deeply. He was one of a kind and will be missed.
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Lynn Basselman
April 15th, 2023 at 9:05am
Coach Hoser was an absolute amazing man who taught us not only the game of basketball but how to be compassionate, respectful individuals. I am blessed to have known him. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Hosbein family.
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Rachel Hutchins-Kent
April 15th, 2023 at 8:54am
Our sympathy. Gary was a wonderful human being and leaves behind such a great legacy. We hope that all your memories will bring you comfort.
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Steve and Becky (Fields) Doak
April 15th, 2023 at 8:02am
I had the privilege of knowing Gary for 40+ years. In 1982, while I was working as a Three Oaks police officer, he invited me to his annual Blossom Parade Party at his Main street office. Over the years he has provided me with legal advice, personal counsel, loving kindness. and a very special, meaningful friendship. He taught me more about human compassion than any other person. I miss him dearly.
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Mark Coulston
April 15th, 2023 at 5:13am
Gary was the consumate gentleman always willing to help anyone in need of a gentle hand or just a smile. He will be missed.
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Nancy Steele Butzbach
April 14th, 2023 at 9:32pm
One of the biggest blessings in this area lakeshore will never be the same my kids loved him.im so sorry to the family. Chris hang in there brother
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Kent hardin
April 14th, 2023 at 9:16pm
Barb and the entire Hosbein family; my sincere condolences. Gary was a fine attorney and always a gentleman. He was successful as an attorney by the way he treated everyone. Gary was always a friend of the law enforcement community. I was fortunate to have Gary as a friend.
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Stephen Marschke
April 14th, 2023 at 8:51pm
Barb, and family, We are so so saddened by Gary’s passing. We cherish our memories of the many good times with Gary. Our family mourns with you and yours. We will miss our kind caring friend. Our condolences. Dan and Sharon Deja
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Dan and Sharon Deja
April 14th, 2023 at 8:36pm
Dear Barb, Gordon and Girls—I was so sorry to learn of Gary’s passing. When I arrived in the Twin Cities to start practicing he had already been at it for several months and he “showed me the ropes” and how to get around in the courthouse. He was my mentor and we used to go to court together in his Ford Torino. I am fortunate to have worked with him. I won’t be able to attend the service because I will be out of town. We all lost a great guy.
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Dave Peterson
April 14th, 2023 at 5:25pm
